KnowBetterWithF.I.D

Something is going wrong and it is quietly killing a lot of people’s dreams and nobody is saying anything about it, this kind of love people impose on people, a kind of love that is evil, this kind of love mostly comes from people who think they love you and use that as an excuse to make you live a kind of life they want, not the kind of life you want.

The family is supposed to be for moral, emotional, and mental support when the need arises, not to dictate or control your life, you can choose a career path or a partner of your choice, remember you own yourself, you know your worth and what you are capable of doing and what you are not, people who say they love you are supposed to support you, yes! everybody is afraid of failing, but we become our best version of ourselves when we try and fail and learn from our own mistakes.

Because you saw someone do that same thing I want to do and failed does not mean I too will fail, learn to have a little faith in people you love that they know how to handle themselves, I am not talking about egocentric overgrown babies who don’t still know what life is about, I am talking about a sound mind right-thinking adult. You can just encourage and support him without applying force, this is somebody’s life on the line, not yours, don’t use love as a disguise to exercise your narcissistic nature on someone and call it love, you can never love a person more than the person loves himself except if that was person is mad.

Love is compassion, love is trust, love is faith, love is divine, how can you get angry simply because you asked me to make some life choices for myself and I say no? Is that love or hatred of the highest degree? Everything always goes wrong when you try to impose your decision on an adult because every adult has his purpose on earth, stop subduing people to live the life you want for them instead of the life they want for themselves simply because you support them financially or in any other way, you can love and support them from a distance without directly influencing or interfering.

Only children need to be forced sometimes to do the right things because they do not fully understand the way the world works, but it is only a foolish adult that doesn’t know what he wants in life.

May God helps us to become the best versions of ourselves and find our purpose in life and may he bring us closer with only people who will genuinely key into our purpose in life, amen.

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