KnowBetterWithF.I.D

True love they say, knows no race, no religion, no social or financial barrier, they say true love is patient, tolerant, forgiving, trusting, faithful, pure, and unconditional.

I will like to put it straight to you that, these are the greatest lies ever told, they are lies that enslave and ensnare you into settling for a relationship out of fear of being lonely, and in the quest for finding a companion, you end up falling for lies and deceit all because you were fed with loads of crap about what real love is.

Real love is very conditional, you can never truly love a person and watch him/her go down a destructive path, nothing in the world hurts more than seeing the person you love doing things that are harmful/destructive to themselves, because when you love them, it will hurt you to see them hurt themselves.

For example, God loves all sinners, but he hates sin because it leads to death, parents love their children but hate it when the children go astray that is why you hear parents disowning their kids, people divorcing their spouses, and cases of heartbreak everywhere.

In every relationship, there must be a giver and a taker, for example, a woman who married a man because he is caring and romantic will fall out of love with that man immediately after she stops getting those shows of affection. A man who married a woman because of her physical features will cheat when those features begin to fade away.

A father expects some kind of behavior from his child and the child expects the father to do his obligation of providing for his needs also, as soon as either of them fails to comply with their end of the bargain, things are bound to fall out of order because somebody is not getting their dues.

In every union, there is an agreement, an agreement is done with either two or more people, so in every relationship you see, both parties have something they gain from each other either directly or indirectly, problems always start when one party decides to become greedy or deny the other party of getting their dues.

It will do you plenty of good to always give Ceaser what belongs to Ceaser so that there will be a continuous and harmonious relationship, don’t ever try to go into any form of relationship with a parasitic mindset of only receiving and not giving anything in return because it will backfire very fast and hard on you.

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